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stick with the winners?

How do I DO this stuff?

stick with the winners?

9 Comments 08 April 2012

    Who exactly ARE these “winners” that everyone keeps talking about sticking with??? I mean really… how do you know who to talk to or whom you should run the hell away from? People can appear to be anything they choose …  at first. Appearances are deceiving and talk is a cheap 10 dollar [...]

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Emotional Intelligence

screw cable

1 Comment 09 March 2012

  It is … what it is. Twisting and turning like the python in Pandora’s Box, life has a way of just “happening”.  It can happen TO us or we can be an active member of this late night R rated game show.  Put the kids to bed Ma … “life’s” on again.  Flip the [...]

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We are NOT a glum lot…

Fun in Recovery?

We are NOT a glum lot…

7 Comments 26 February 2012

  So. We get sober/clean.  We go to meetings, get a sponsor, do stepwork … all the necessaries.  What now? How in the sam hell do I have FUN and not use?  All my receptor sites, gut level instincts, behaviors, and attitudes have focused on using for so long that fun seems to be a [...]

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Emotional Intelligence

accept

5 Comments 24 January 2012

    If you’ve ever been to an “anonymous type” meeting, you’ve probably heard about this strange word called acceptance.  Dictionary.com defines as “the act of taking or receiving something offered.  favorable reception; approval; favor. the act of assenting or believing.” At meetings all over the universe tonight, I imagine wise folks with many years [...]

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Emotional Intelligence

busy busy

5 Comments 13 November 2011

This post is for the over-achievers and excessive “taskers”. If you don’t freak out if your house isn’t spotless or you’re entirely okay that you haven’t gotten all your christmas shopping done/wrapped/hidden or if you don’t do 10th step inventories about your 10th step inventories… then this doesn’t apply to you. If you’re completely okay [...]

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I Love Recovery, Inside my Mind

National Recovery Month???

4 Comments 25 September 2011

    It’s National Recovery Month… huh? What does THAT mean exactly? Well according to SAMHSA (Substance Abuse And Mental Health Administration) it’s this… National Recovery Month (Recovery Month) is a national observance that educates Americans on the fact that addiction treatment and mental health services can enable those with a substance use or mental disorder to live a [...]

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Celebrity Addiction: do we care and why?

celebrity exemption

3 Comments 03 August 2011

The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called will power becomes practically nonexistent. My powerlessness over alcohol does not cease when I quit drinking. In sobriety I still have no choice—I can’t drink. The choice I do have is to pick up and [...]

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Relationships and Recovery

not love.

4 Comments 12 May 2011

so. yeah. i don’t have a regular blog post tonight. but i do have some poetry. i know … *groan*. but this? this is important to me. and long. and to any of you who have suffered abuse by the hand of someone who says “i love you” you’ll get this. addiction often lends itself [...]

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How do I DO this stuff?

solution focus.

1 Comment 09 April 2011

Changes. I got em. Big ones – little ones – ones that snicker and leer – ones that fill me with fear (omg I’m rhyming. OUT of poetry mode Amy. sheesh.) Anyway… even the “good” things can be scary. Being the upbeat – on the verge of annoying – happy girl that I am, I [...]

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Emotional Intelligence

emotional maturity or what would MOM say?

3 Comments 24 March 2011

Ever heard the phrase, when we start using we stop growing emotionally.  So basically look at the age you first began using and that’s EMOTIONALLY where you’re starting from when you get sober/clean.  Scary eh? A bunch of teenagers trying to navigate the social world. Except that many teenagers have learned coping skills through the [...]

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